Do you think skin color is a barrier when it comes to dating? Do not think along those lines. She has everything a man would only dream his woman had. She is a beauty queen, a woman who is in a class of her own. She is ahead of the pack in terns of elegance, grace and beauty. Pay a blind eye to the color bar, see the woman. The essence of her heart is what matters, the color of her skin is secondary. We are all one people with different colors, interracial dating is healthy and possible. We all have the same needs and desires in life hence the visible differences are man made. We have created and erected barriers around our tribal cocoons in order to entrench our own selfish interests. If she is your dream person love her in abundance. Throw all caution and care to the wind and follow your heart. Let the world make the conclusions it wants to make but by the end of the day you have achieved your goal.
Interracial dating brings diversity to the relationship. This particular diversity can either be an advantage or a disadvantage to the relationship. It brings with it deep rooted differences such as religion, culture, food, beliefs and the general perception of things. It is possible to work out your differences to a compromise. There is nothing in this world today that can not be discussed and solved. In an interracial dating relationship the two lovebirds should work together towards accommodating each other into their different worlds. A lot of understanding, patience and resilience ought to be invested in this relationship in order for things to work out pretty fine. This investments should be long term and geared towards making the relationship grow from strength to strength.
Diversity is strength, let your relationship be a melting pot of cultures. Do not try to change your partner from whom she is to the person that you want her to be. It might not be taken kindly. In the long run change is inevitable, it takes time. Let this change take its natural course. Let it stand the test of time. Let it adopt to the environment. You will eventually change much as your partner will also change. You will start seeing things the same way and reading from the same script when it comes to opinions. All this is subject to time and calls for patience and resilience even in times of adversity. Give interracial dating a chance because it is all that is required. It will prosper and gain root to eventually attain levels you have never imagined before. In the long run you will wonder where all the differences and conflicts you had anticipated have gone to.
Dating is dating, whether interracial dating or not. It does not matter the race or skin co lour of that person. Understand your partner, share in her dreams, goals and desires. Be her pillar of support. Be the tender, caring and loving man she has always dreamt of. Avoid areas and topics that might bring you into a line of conflict. Especially those that stem from her background. With the rough edges of your differences ironed out you can enjoy marital bliss till kingdom come.