The most attractive qualities that Asian women possess

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There are so many attractive Asian women in the United States and the world over. In the U.S. in particular, for years, western men have had an attraction to these women. The numbers are evident based on the rise in interracial dating by Asian women.

On online dating websites, they rank highest as the most favored group of women by men of all other races.

Now people have always brought up the issue of Asian women fetish when it comes to men’s attraction to them. They have been stereotyped a lot. But these are just stereotypes. Every race has fallen victim to this.

So what really makes Asian women so attractive as a potential partner? It’s not just about their looks. There is more to it. So what really draws men of other races to want to date them and marry them.

Qualities of attractive Asian women

1. They are respectful

Men love women who are respectful. But do not confuse this for weakness. Coz much as people assume they are submissive, they are also very  opinionated. Honor her respect with respect. If you treat her as a doormat, she will leave.

2. They have a strong family values

If you are dating an Asian woman and you end up getting married to her, the family you have together will always come first. At the same time, she will also put importance into your own parent family.

3. They truly are attractive

Not that I am stereotyping but most Asian ladies are petite in nature. And this kind of physique makes them look more feminine. Most men find this attractive.

4. They age gracefully

Believe me when I say this… Asian women always look younger than they really are. They take great care of their skin and health in general and have  wonderful even skin complexions.

 

How to prepare for your first meeting with your partner’s Asian parents

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You have been dating your Asian partner for a while now and like it or not,  at some point, you will have to meet your partner’s Asian parents for the first time.

Meeting the parents especially of an interracial partner is something most people dread. One thing people worry about most is whether they will accept you for being a person of different race. And their acceptance might affect your relationship one way or another.

There is no reason to think that they wouldn’t like you if their daughter or son likes you. Today, most parents don’t meddle much in the dating choices of their children. They let them feel free to choose whoever they want to date.

So how do you get yourself ready for that dreaded first meeting?

1. Learn a thing or two about your partner’s Asian parents

couple viewing tabletWhen you begin dating, take an interest in your partner’s family, especially if you are planning to be together for the long-term. Family is very important within the Asian community. This will definitely show that you are committed to him or her and that you are looking forward to being part of their family.

Find out their likes and dislikes and ask your partner the dos and donts you need to be on the lookout for.

2. Don’t be on first name basis with them

Refer to them as Mr. and Mrs. It shows respect which is very important to Asians.

3. Buy a gift

asian interracial coupleYou will definitely score high points if you bring something for the first visit. Ask your partner about what will be appropriate to carry. It doesn’t have to be something expensive. Even cake will do the trick.

4. Familiarize yourself with some of their traditions

First off, dress in a modest way. Another thing with most Asian homes is that people remove their shoes when getting into the house. So talk to your partner so he or she can fill you in.

5. Don’t be too touchy

We understand you are in love. Avoid public displays of affection in front of the Asian parents. Save that kissing for after the visit. Discretion shows respect.

Goodluck!

10 facts that your Asian Soulmate probably did not tell you

The number of white people with an Asian soulmate has increased over the years. Yes! Asians are really dating white people at an alarming rate. And the ones being sought after most by white men are Asian women.

Now the thing that usually comes up a lot about Asian White dating is stereotypes. People will shame the Asian man for being nerdy. People will assume White men only date Asian women because they are submissive.

Well, all these stereotypes are just what they are. Stereotypes. Now if you are the kind of person who is looking for an Asian man or woman to prove whether these stereotypes are true or not, then you have a big thing coming.

Now that you have found your Asian soulmate, here are some facts about Asians you probably have no clue about…

respectful asian woman1. Asian women are not submissive

I had to start with this one. The thing is, Asian women are raised to be polite and respectful. Now dude, do not take this to mean that she is submissive and you can walk all over her. If you do, she will unleash the tiger in her.

2. He or she probably has no interest in Asian politics

If your love was born and bred in America, then she is American. The only politics they have interest in is American. They probably have no clue nor have an opinion about their Asian country’s politics.

3. Not everyone is a Science geek

Don’t run to your Asian love asking him to fix your comp. Just like you are not that savvy, he probably isn’t too

4. Hate for Trump

A survey was done and Asians do not favor that guy…

5. “You don’t really look Asian is a very offensive phrase”

This is never taken as a compliment as it makes one feel that there is something wrong with being Asian.

6. An Asian man can protect you

Stereotypes do depict Asian men as weak. However, if someone messes with you, trust me, he will whoop their ass Bruce Lee style.

7. They are ok with broccoli from any food court or hot dog

Please spare yourself the trouble of ordering Chinese everyday thinking that is all your Asian soulmate digs.

8. Asians are the fastest growing racial group in the U.S.

Dont let the underrepresentation in the Media fool you

9. They probably have no clue about the best Chinese restaurant

Please don’t assume he or she knows where to find the best Chinese cuisine. Just google…

10. They hate the question: “No. Really. Where are you from?”

If he or she mentions a state in the U.S., then let it go. America is his or her home.

Why People say Interracial Dating is the Best

Dating only white people — or black, or Asian, or Hispanic — seems like a dumb hill to die on, especially considering all the reasons why interracial dating is pretty darn spectacular.

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Wild love: Moreover, it’s a lot harder for your man to be bad at lovin’ and sexy-time when he’s confident about who he is as a person.

Learn to laugh a little: You’re going to make mistakes, say the wrong things and stumble into faux pas. And it’s OK. Maybe race relations need a little levity.

A religious dimension: Even if you and your new beau come from the same religious background, your differing racial heritage will bring a new dimension to your faith. For instance, you’re likely to experience the Christian faith differently between a quiet baptism and a gospel brunch.

Hooray for traditions: Holidays are no longer just holidays. Fourth of July, for instance, takes on added meaning if you celebrate with a boyfriend who was born in a different country. You might find your traditions take on more meaning when you see them with the eyes of another person.

A delicious smorgasbord: We would be remiss if we didn’t mention the sheer delight of enjoying ethnic foods. Whether we’re talking moussaka, tamales or baklava, your taste buds will thank you for dating outside the box.

This gives new meaning to “family”: Many people cite their families as the reason they avoid interracial dating. But once a skeptical family surrounds an interracial couple, we swear that the love is basically quadrupled.

Who said anything about taboo? :That said, public opinion on interracial dating has changed wildly in the last few decades. Now, over eight percent of all new marriages are interracial, and Americans overwhelmingly approve of interracial pairings. Have no fear.

Basic Rules in interracial dating men tend to ignore

Rules in interracial dating

The basic rules in interracial dating are clear; give attention, trust your partner, be confident of yourself and follow the basic rules that make your woman happy. There is only one basic rule for men especially in interracial dating – keep your woman happy and take the lead. Still men fail to take note of small things that may seem very obvious to do. Women just demand care and attention along with a few gestures that make her feel her value in that relationship. If a woman is not able to see her worth in a relationship she will not stay long or may even show her disinterest in you or even the relationship. Men need to take care of a few basic things that will ensure the smoothness of the relationship and happiness of both partners.

Rules in interracial dating
Rules in interracial dating

Asking out is the first for basic rules in interracial dating

Women are independent and outgoing today still the basic rules in interracial dating state that it’s the man who needs to take the initiative and ask her out on the first date. No mutual decision making in this regard. A man needs to make sure that even after developing comfort and a lot of communication on an online interracial dating website he has to formally invite her for a physical date. The biggest fear men possess is the fear of rejection in an interracial dating scenario. This fear needs to be put in the backseat since it will never allow you to ask anyone out. And if you don’t ask anyone out you are never ever going to date anyone. Women still wait for a man to take the lead inspite of all their independence.

Sharing to a limit is one of the basic rules in interracial dating

When on a date do not over share things with the woman. Do not whine on your past and talk about any abusive relationships, parental abuse, suicide attempts or nervous breakdowns since she is not there to hear all this. Although your intentions are just to open up and let her know all that she needs to know about you. Remember it is a date and she is there to have a good time. Share only that much that is necessary for the occasion. Don’t let her feel like an emotional sink for you.

Not letting her pay is an important basic rule in interracial dating

She might tell you that she wants to split the bill, however you being the gentleman, are not going to let it happen. Women tend to put this proposal before the men they date. They do not have a problem with splitting the bill. However it is surely going to leave a bad taste if the bill is splitted. You may be tempted to save a few buck however you are surely going to loose the date and the woman you have yearned to date for a long time. You can slit the bill if you are on a casual outing however on a serious date it is not advisable for men to split the bill.

 

Are you unknowingly destroying your interracial relationship

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You have been into a beautiful and emotional interracial relationship after a few weeks of online dating and meeting. This is the best thing that could have happened to you in this life. The feeling of bliss and achievement is unparallel. Keeping an interracial relationship intact for a long time needs a bit of effort from both the partners. You need to make sure that you don’t do a few things when in an interracial relationship to make it work for a long time.

Interracial relationship
           Interracial relationship

Do not black mail emotionally in an interracial relationship

Playing with emotions and blackmailing someone emotionally to get what you want is the biggest mistake you can commit in an interracial relationship. You tend to be the abuser in an abusive relationship. True lovers never torment each other emotionally for their own benefit. By blackmailing in an interracial relationship you are making the relationship toxic.

Hiding the truth in an interracial relationship spells doom

Hiding truth from your interracial partner in an interracial relationship is surely going to spell doom for the relationship. The basis of any good relationship is trust and respect and if any of them is lost the relationship dynamics go for toss. Anytime you lie or hide the truth from your partner you are passing a message that you do not trust him or her. Being honest and truthful with your interracial partner will surely make your relationship strong and long lasting.

Unreasonable expectations from one another

Expectations crop up by themselves in an interracial relationship. However the expectations need to be reasonable. Being too much demanding or only being demanding in relationship will only destroy the relationship. Unreasonable expectations are nothing but a reason for disappointment and disaster in an interracial relationship. Expect but to the limits and keeping in view the capabilities and capacity of your interracial partner.

Time and attention in the relationship are lacking

There was time when you used to be up all night chatting with each other. You were not able to keep count of time and wanted to be with each other all the time. That was the initial phase of the relationship when you were trying to make an impression. However now you are caught up with work and you message or talk only once a week. The attention adulation and care that existed in the relationship has become a thing of the past. This is the final nail in the coffin of the interracial relationship that both of you once nurtured.

 

Are you ready for a Serious Relationship? Let’s Check it out

Casual dating, online dating, hooking up—you’ve tried it all and you’ve tested it all. But they no longer hold the same appeal anymore, or you’re tired of the usual cycle of meet someone new—have fun—get bored—find someone new again. But then you meet somebody who makes you want to break out of this cycle. If this has happened to you, chances are, you might be looking for something a bit more serious. Here are some signs to help decode if you’re ready to take the big step.

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• You no longer think that being with someone is an absolute necessity for you. You’re happy with your own company, and aren’t relying on a relationship to fill a void.

• You’ve been the player and aced the game, but now you no longer want to play games or go round and round trying to figure out what’s on his mind, and aren’t afraid to let him know what’s on yours.

• You’ve gotten over your jerk of an ex, and no longer feel a sting every time you hear his name or see him. Goodbye baggage, hello future!

• Sure, you love chick flicks just as much as the next girl, but you’ve stopped waiting for a Prince Charming to come and save you. Realistic expectations are more your thing now.

• You’ve figured out some sort of a plan for your future and have the energy to dedicate to a relationship.

• The six pack abs, dimpled smile and everything else on the ‘must-have looks’ list no longer stands, and you prefer going by the vibe you get from that person instead.

• You want to include them in other aspects of your life as well, be it valuing their opinions when it comes to your career, and you can’t wait to introduce them to your friends and family.

• You’re comfortable being who you are and embrace all your quirks in their entirety, without feeling the need to change for somebody else.

• You don’t mind a little compromise and are okay with finding a common ground that works for both of you, instead of pouting when things don’t go your way.

• The prospect of having ‘the talk’ about your future doesn’t scare you anymore. Nervous butterflies maybe, but you no longer run away from the topic.

The Best Moments in Every Relationship

1. First Meeting: Whenever you will meet your date one-on-one for the first time. I would say the first meeting with your date is more exiting as you will let all your held-up crush energy on your first date. In other words you can say it is as big a deal as your potential marriage day. Professional Tip for your first Meeting: Don’t discuss your potential weddings on the first date.

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2. Nervous Pause Before your First Kiss: The second best moment within a relationship according to me is the Nervous Pause immediately before you will kiss for the first time.

3. The first time you bone. Well, hopefully your first time was a great moment. And if not, you’re a very selfless person for sticking with them.

4. The first time you stay the night instead of abruptly peacing-out like Cinderella the second it hits 2 a.m. Especially if you usually run off into the night immediately after coitus. Well, maybe hobble into the night while trying to put on your pants is a more apt description. My point is, your first sleepover is a big deal.

5. When you are in bed together with your date and did nothing but then too you feel amazing. If you will do this for the first time then of course you will find out that it’s cute and romantic. But if you will do the same thing for the 90th time, then it means you’re mutually-dependent agoraphobics. Also, if you can literally spend an entire day sharing a bed with your date and doing nothing else then it means you’ve got something good going.

6. Whenever you in your relationship you will realize your partner’s family could also be your family (and you’re OK with that). Some people have stupid families. So it’s a relief when you meet your partner’s and you actually feel at home. Getting along with their family instead of feeling awkward and intimidated is great.

7. When picking your partner up at the airport felt like the best moment in the world. Spending time apart (however long) is rough, but getting to see each other again makes it all worth it. All right, maybe it would’ve been better to not be apart in the first place.

Interracial Love is Empowering United States of America

With the widespread use of social networking websites, people in the USA are more attracted towards the interracial dating these days. With the more secure online portals, people can easily find trustworthy dates. The USA has the most secure and protected internet services available. This provides more confidence to the people find someone special in their lives.

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Like any other country or the community even in the USA, people were anguish about the threats of interracial dating. At the earlier time, white people have to face the discrimination within their society if they get involved with the blacks as many white people at old times speculate the black as lower in mind and appearance.

The USA has now changed and moved on with the fast-paced lifestyle. It is no longer possible to date people in the conservative ways like dating people who are known to us through one another’s friends, associates, family members, social group, and like that. Lifestyles have changed and people have time to cook meals at home or to go for the night out with friends and families, where they can find the partners or soul mates. This is the reason for people preferring the online dating.

It is apparent that legalizing gay marriage has improved the vision of the people towards the gays and it addressed many issues troubling our society. Likewise, legalizing interracial marriage has substantially removed the social barriers among the people of different colors in the USA. Interracial dating and marriages have worked well on lowering down the racial inequality and separation of the USA on the color basis.

I think interracial dating is a big step towards finding the real racial purity. In our country, we have witnessed many wrongful racial activities and all this happened within our cultured society. Now the time has changed and new generations are witnessing racial equality prevailing everywhere including the interracial dating. This is all turned history when racial discrimination witnessed violence and unavoidably grimy lines in the society.

Lip Locking on an interracial date

Interracial date kissing

Clearing a few hurdles after starting dating online it is time to get more intimate on the subsequent interracial date. Kissing is considered as the start of a long term bonding in an interracial date. Couples who kiss more frequently are considered to be more romantic and more close to each other. With every passionate lip locking session the bond grows stronger. A sense of belonging to the relationship sets in and the couple starts to envision the future together. The present looks more beautiful and both partners yearn to see each other more often. Release of the happiness hormones increases and the interracial date becomes a long party.

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Interracial date

Look for signs to lip lock with your interracial date

In case the girl is interested in having a lip lock with you on an interracial date she will give out a few signs and signals that you need to catch. It is not too tough to observe and catch these signals. If she is genuinely interested in having a lip lock she will try and touch you more than often while you are together. She will try and touch you on the shoulder or will try to get close to you on one or the other pretext. Observe her movements and see if they are accidental or intentional. In case they are intentional be ready for some nice action on your interracial date.

Follow the signs and take the lead on the interracial date

Once you have got the signals and are sure about her wanting to be cozy with you make sure you have the right orientation of your mind and heart. Being a man you need to take the lead; unless you are with a go getter and bold woman. Reciprocate the signals and make her feel that you got her message and you are ready for it. Look for a space where you can kiss her without any inhibitions. Steer clear of shady alleys. Your or her car or a corner in a park can be a good bet to lip lock without any hesitation. Reciprocate her touches. You can also hold her hand and look into her eyes to make her understand what is coming her way.

Make sure you keep your hormones under control on an interracial date

Once you have held her hand and set your gaze into her eyes move slowly towards her face. Do not rush since rushing can kill the passion of the moment. If she stops you do not force yourself on her. Giver her time and space since she might require it to compose herself to get ready for the lip lock. Move close enough and plant a kiss on her cheek and then move towards her lips. In case she changes her mind mid way show her respect, apologize and thank her for the wonderful time you have had. In case the situation gets awkward crack a joke and thank her for being with you.