What to expect when dating Japanese women

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When dating Japanese women one thing you need to acknowledge is that every girl is different. Yes, there might be traits that might seem similar – traits that have been influenced by their cultural heritage. However, you need to acknowledge every woman’s individuality. That is one of the things every man has to keep in mind when dating any woman from another race. Forget the stereotypes and the generalizations. Treat her as an individual.

That said, here are some of the things that seem common to most Japanese women. Bear in mind that if they are born and bred in the US or other European countries, the intensity will definitely vary based on the assimilation of the Western culture.

Insight into what it’s like to date a Japanese woman

They understand submission when it comes to performing their daily routines

First off, there is a general belief that when dating Japanese women, you will always get a shy and submissive one. Now people always think bedroom wise. Or that these women will bow at your beck and call. WRONG!

Japanese women understand what needs to be done. So if it’s cooking, they will do it to the best of their ability. However, this kind of submission needs to be balanced with a man’s respect and appreciation too. So DO NOT mistake their caring for weakness.

They are known to take reigns behind closed doors and demand respect

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Well, stereotype or not, I think if a woman feels you deserve some good loving, she will go out of her way to please you best way she knows how. The stereotype about submission in bed, cut it out. Give her the respect she deserves and you will get the pleasure you are craving for. Whatever kink you are thinking of, remember consent is key. Don’t assume she will be into it. Otherwise, it will all just seem disrespectful.

When dating Japanese women know that they are very in tune with family and their cultural history

This one I might agree with. Especially the family bit. I will not dispute this one. Find out as much as you can about her culture. Be ready to probably attend most family events. Learn as much as you can about their history. That way, you will know how to behave around her family and friends. BUT if she is Japanese American, steer clear from asking too much about her history or making it a thing. I know I might be contradicting myself but, probably she has no clue. Just let her be.

Online dating is the place to find a white man or woman

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Believe it or not, finding a non-Asian date for Asian singles has always been difficult, The negative stigma associated with online dating has become a thing of past and time has arrived to give it a shot.

Here are the reasons to choose online dating to find white women or men.  

Bigger pool: Asians are raised in a different environment which makes them different from white people, but being different also reduce their chances of meeting their ideal partner. Online dating allows you to meet thousands of ideal matches who are interested in meeting.

No obligation: One of the best things about online dating is you are not required to follow any obligations, there is no guilt even if you don’t like the person, you can disconnect with them within 2 seconds.

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Search Algorithms: Most of the dating sites owners are spending millions to make the love matching more accurate, these dating sites allow you to define your priorities and widen your search options.
You can filter your ideal singles on the basis of their region, ethnicity, age, sexual preferences, hobbies, etc.

Specialty dating sites: Are you aware of the availability of specialty dating sites? These sites are created specifically to fulfill particular requirements. There are specialty Asian dating sites available where white singles can register and get in contact with the local Asians.  

Better search radius: You cant always find your ideal march within your friend’s circle, sometimes they are available next to you and you are unaware of them. Online dating improves your search radius and helps you meet more people looking to date with the same preferences. Expand your circle, there are millions of prospective matches online.

Online dating saves you from embarrassment: Approaching people around you can turn into an embarrassment, that is one of the biggest reasons why most of the people are afraid of approaching the opposite sex. Online dating saves you from unnecessary embarrassments and rejections.

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User Verification: Some sites also offer to verify the background of anyone who registers with them to keep the environment user-friendly and secure for everyone.  

Step into the work of casual dating: Online dating is not bounded to any obligation, you can meet new people, have coffee with them, go on concerts with them and just be a good friend.
Online dating has emerged as a key player in bringing people closer to each other.

Shy and subservient – The Asian woman myth

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Female Asian myth! We know it too well. These women, just because they are generally smaller than the average American woman, we decide they are submissive women. Its called having the Asian fetish. Over years, the fetishization of Asian women has existed. Some men will want to date them just because of that. But are these stereotypes right? Definitely not. Let’s explore and tramp some of them.

Why western society has it all wrong with Asian women and how they perceive them

It’s an Asian myth that Asian women are submissive

So they are small. So? If you think you are going to date an Asian woman and sit on her, then you have another think coming. What defines any woman is her personality. And personality is not race-defined. You are who you are. Polite. Aggressive. It doesn’t matter. It’s upon the man to adjust to who you are.

­­Asian women are largely dominant in home life

asian girlYes, they say women are supposed to be submissive. What is submission really? I think it needs to work both ways. Asian women know how to take care of their families. They are on-point. When it comes to family, they dominate. Be it food, husbands or even ensuring everything is in order, an Asian woman will deliver.

They can be very adventurous in bed and are not at all shy

It’s an Asian myth that the women are meek in bed. Like I mentioned earlier, it’s all about a person’s personality. Am I freaky in bed? Hell yeah! Is it because of my race? Race has got nothing to do with being shy in bed. A person’s upbringing has a lot to do with this. Asian Americans have been exposed to things westerners have been. What makes you think that she won’t rock your world?

The thing is, people like to stereotype. But it doesn’t get us anywhere. A person is a person. Whether submissive or aggressive, it’s who they are. Let us quash the myth about Asian women being submissive. Just meet someone and get to know them for who they are.

The Most Attractive Qualities That Asian Men Possess

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Many women from western countries adore Asian men, and most of them have positive feedback for the Asian men. Let’s understand some of the most distinguishing qualities of Asian men that make them really attractive.

Know how to handle their finance

Most of the Asians come from a very humble background where taking care of the finance it a part of their cultural practice. Most of the Asian men are found to act very maturely about their savings, investments, and spending.

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Highly educated

Asia contains 60% of the world population; the amount of competition these guys faces is pathetically high which forces them to enhance their education skills. Women who search for the intelligence on their top priority tends to fall in love quickly with these cute looking guys.

They will look the same even after 20 years.

Apart from finance and education, there looks is something that totally distinguishes them. Every woman wants a man who looks good all the time and Asians certainly satisfy their requirements.

He will be very respectful towards your family

Are you a family person who expect their partner to treat your family with respect? Try to date an Asian. I remember one of the old sayings that Asians teach “respect elders and love younger’s”. When my parents met my Asian boyfriend for the first time he gave his respect for bowing down and touching feet, my parents were stunned to see those kinds of cultural values.

He will prefer family time instead of getting drunk

Most of the Asian men are very sincere and dedicated men towards their family and their love, family and work come on the topmost priority.

Perfect marriage material

Asians are not afraid to make commitments; if he is dating you then he must be having some plans to marry you, you can be sure about that. What do you call a person who is highly educated, good with finance, love your family and not afraid to make a commitment? “A Perfect Marriage Material”. 😉